i know for a fact that my wife feels the same way. She keeps it to herself. Mrs. Celko's pain is evident and obvious, but her common sense words during this awful time should be part of any MSF instruction course.
I didn't know your husband other than through this site. we all know he did not want his family to suffer and maybe all of us share some guilt in that regard.
Thank you for sharing your heart, your suggestions and your admonitions.
"Integrity can accommodate the inadvertent error and the honest difference of opinion; it cannot accommodate deceit or the subordination of principle."